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In
the spring of 1997, shortly after our family learned my sister Linda had
MS, I was deeply disturbed by the process's, treatments,
hospitalizations and in home health care which my sister was to endure.
Though she was married at the time, I knew this catastrophic illness
would reach far into their pockets and possibly drain them of all they
had. There is no cure for MS and treatments are numerous and costly. At
the same time Linda was enduring these dreadful difficulties I was busy
putting a personal relationship which had been unraveling, behind me. I
was now looking for something to get my mind off my troubles. At the
time my music had been dormant and not serving any purpose but my own
satisfactions. I decided to put my musical, philanthropic talents to
work for my sister. The idea to put on a benefit concert was born. I
began by searching for a concert hall, then calling on friends in the
local music business I had already known such as; Michael Smith and rock
'n' roll heavy hitter Dirty Dan Buck and the Boyzz. Once I had my venue
chosen I started calling on all my musician friends such as; Al Ehrich,
Angela Licari, Rich Koc, Kurt Christensen, and Paul Weaver. A date was
set for August 22nd, 1997. In the seven year's to come I
gave three such benefit concerts, raising nearly to $46,000.00 to help pitch in my
fair share to Linda's in home health care costs. It is important to note her
costs were so enormous that my contributions remained but a smaller
portion of
what was truly needed. My Mother, my Father my sister Nancy and her
husband Brad Gamss along with help from our cousins family; the
Schawk's, all contributed to making sure Linda had the best care we
could provide her.
Years earlier her husband, Rod Walton, divorced her and gave up after
suffering his own troubles caring for Linda, a weak position at best. He
had the help of a loving brother in law and an entire family to help out
emotionally and financially. Mr. Walton never called or showed up to
Linda's memorial service nor did he call or attend our mother's funeral
when she passed away shortly after Linda death... again a weak position
at best.
Linda passed away on October 16th, 2006. It was an enormous undertaking
to help Linda survive all those years. As much as her disease affected
her mind, I know in my heart she appreciated it. She still lives with
me!
Click on the program
cover's below (1997, 2001, 2004) and view details, pictures and audio of
each benefit show I put on.
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